I'm a straight Asian guy, so I can only really speak from my perspective.
But it's happened a bunch of times where I find a girl I think would be interested in me, only to find that she doesn't want to date outside her race (given that the area I live in is predominantly white, the girl in question is typically white).
I gotta say, it doesn't feel good. And it's kinda messing with my brain. Especially because these are typically girls I felt I would have had a shot with in real life.
But I gotta say OKC has been pretty illuminating. Because when I'm out and about in bars and what not I don't really notice any racial bias, but it's undoubtedly there.
This isn't really a rant/complaint, I just wanted to get the thoughts/opinions of my fellow colored brethren.