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Best places to go out and meet women when you're 18-20? (self.seduction)

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The only places I can think of so far that would be the most doable are: 1) Mall (Probably have to buy something to not look like a creep) 2) Supermarket (Same as mall) 3) Coffee Shop (same as mall + I'd probably have to bring a laptop/book) 4) Local community/state college campuses (bad timing with it being Summer though)

Beyond that, I'm not too sure. I think it would also be prudent to mention that I'd be going out and doing this alone, so that may/may not affect where I should be going. I'd appreciate more options/ideas for places to go. Thanks!

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[–]NickTDS 9 points10 points ago

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First off, stop thinking you're going to be creepy. If you believe that, you will scare yourself from approaching or project those feelings onto the girls you do meet.

Second, I actually just answered this on another thread, so I'll link you there to avoid repetition:

http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ucgfd/where_to_meet_girlspractice_game/c4u6t6k

[–]Pure_Ambition 4 points5 points ago

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This guy is right. If you even have a lingering thought of creepiness in your mind, your game will suck.

You're not being creepy by going out. Bring some friends with you. Make the day about yall. Just a bunch of friends hanging out. Enjoying yourself should always be the goal - don't make women your goal. Women are fickle, and they'll let you down. If you put the focus on you, you have complete control over how much fun you have.

[–]DivineIntervention 3 points4 points ago

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To redundantly reinforce the point and hopefully really drive it in, do NOT approach people with the mindset that you're going to be creepy. It isn't creepy to talk to people, so stop it with this "oh this is creepy/awkward" bullshit.

Like Pure_Ambition said, bring some friends and have a good time. If none are in town, go it alone and still enjoy yourself. If you're at a store, just window shop and start conversations with women. Whenever you hit up your local food mart, make casual conversation with women, etc. Otherwise, go to a coffee shop. Just get some breakfast or a coffee and strike up conversation with a woman.

I don't know where you go to school, but I'm sure a lot of state schools can have a good amount of students during the Summer B semester (at least it's like that here in Florida) so just wait a few weeks and talk to all of the new incoming freshmen and bring the party to them. Continue this into the fall. If you're renting an apartment or a house, it'll be great to open a group of freshmen who are looking to party and at the end of it all say something along the lines of, "Hey, I'm sure you're all looking to have some fun this semester. Well, my roommates and I have an apartment/house over at [X] and would love it if you joined us to pre-game party." Again, I don't know what your schooling situation is for you, but I go to a relatively big party in a large city with plenty of clubs and bars around and I have a house with 2 of my best friends so this is something that I am able to do.

[–]Im_awesome_AMA 8 points9 points ago

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Literally everywhere except your fucking house. Even retirement homes have hot nurses and stuff, just get up and go. Why do you mind coming off creepy? You are fucking great! Any Girl who is creeped out misses the adventure of her fucking life!

[–]stuckit 4 points5 points ago

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God, to be 18-20 again and have a resource like seddit at hand. Or the f'ing internet in general.

[–]d41d8cd 1 point2 points ago

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Since its summer, goto the beach, if you can get a summer job there even better, I wish I could live at the beach. Seriously every year its just happy faces, bikinis, girls who want to party. You won't find any long term relationship material (unless they live near you and theyre on vacation too) but a beach fling will be one of the best experiences of your life...trust me.

[–]gerbilownage 1 point2 points ago

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College :D

[–]puaim 1 point2 points ago

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The three best places I've met women:

Uni. There are so many things in uni to do, so many people.

Clubs and voluntary things. Genuinely, this expands your social circle. You can really get to know someone from this by seeing them weekly, and it expands your social circle.

House parties. Self explanatory. The more people you meet, the more chance you have of going to said party. Doesn't have to be a party really - just a social gathering. Invite a bunch of friends to go do something, tell them to invite some of their friends, etc.

Clubs are cool if you're looking for a ONS.

[–]rugger24 1 point2 points ago

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Concerts/shows.

[–]GoldenWarrior 0 points1 point ago

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A bar or club?

Or do I have to go ahead and assume you're American?

edit: Not sure about how college campuses are in America during summer, but you can still find quite a deal of people at mine in Canada. I would suggest near the student center/library if you were going to go on campus. Probably have the highest density of people.

[–]black_shamshir 0 points1 point ago

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Seeing as he specifically said 18-20, I am guessing American. It makes more sense, as in a country where 18 is the drinking age, the 18-20 range is not really different than 18-21, 22, et c.

[–]gyakunan 0 points1 point ago

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this looks like a job for...

[–]itwasalwaysburning -2 points-1 points ago

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Is everyone on this subreddit nearly in highschool?