So, I've been having sex with my boyfriend for about 4 years or so. But in the last 2 years or so, we haven't really been able to because it started to hurt me. So, I haven't enjoyed it in almost 2 years, and because it wasn't very often in the first 2 years, I feel like I don't even know what sex is supposed to be like for girls, and how we're supposed to make it better for the guys. And yea yea, I know, "just make sure you're wet" lol, but what else? Are there moves that girls do that drive you crazy? Is it an attitude thing?
My boyfriend has always been really understanding about how much it hurts and he's never forced anything, and he says that he'll be fine if we can't have sex, but I mean, I don't want us to be married and have a shit sex life. So any help/tips/advice would be appreciated.
EDIT: So I should have figured people would want to know what the dealiyo is with my vag. So here it is. We'd been apart for a few months, and he came back and we tried to hop on the good foot and do the nasty and that was the first time it hurt, almost two years ago. Every time we try to have sex it's like my vag won't stretch to let him fit, so he's just ripping me open. We always try and he always stops. I've had a few doc appointments and I have the next one in a week or so after I move back home.
EDIT 2: Thank you all for the advice, questions, and concern. It really means a lot. =)